Pippa and Grey returned to college this month – Grey in his car, Pippa on Greyhound. When I tell people Pippa takes the Greyhound bus back and forth to her college when Covid isn’t raging, they’re like: But it’s a great way for a college student to save money – it’s way cheaper than flying, […]

My Tiny Bitcoin Investment Lost 64% of Its Value
By Barnaby
Last month, I told you about how you hardly ever get something for nothing. Nevertheless, I received this email from Venmo in August 2021: I’m curious like everyone else, so I nabbed the free opportunity to dip my pinkie toe in the digital currency waters. I bought $5 of bitcoin. A couple weeks later, Venmo […]

Know Your Value
There is an old story that goes something like this: A father said to his daughter, “You have graduated with honors, here is a Jeep I bought many years ago. It is pretty old now. Take it to the used car lot and see how much they offer you for it.” The daughter went to […]

Credit Card Benefits, a Car Insurance Hiccup, and Another Bike Rack Disaster
By Barnaby
In this life, you rarely get something for nothing. Here’s the list in ranked order: God’s grace Credit card benefits On a recent road trip to Ohio, my buddy Oscar was telling me how he financed most of his family’s flights to Cayman Islands using card mileage. Nice! Related: Read about how Oscar saves big bucks on […]

We Paid $5,100 More for a Car Than We Ever Have Before
By Barnaby
Nora finally retired her PT Cruiser. It was her second one and she took it pretty hard. It’s a terrible time to buy a car, especially a used one. But buying a new car just seems profligate, so Nora hit google, looking for something about the same size as a Cruiser, but with a manual […]

Five Micro Stories
By Barnaby
I got the first of two shingles vaccine shots the other day. They start to recommend it when you hit 50, as I am now. Our health insurance paid for it 100%. And my sister suffered through a recent bout of it, so it’s top of mind. What about safety or side effects? Honestly, I […]

A More Modest Bucket List
By Barnaby
Baltimore is slowly – very slowly – joining other cities in building more bike lanes and trails. In 2014, $2M was allocated to extend the Inner Harbor-originating Jones Falls Trail to downtown Mount Washington, from Cylburn Arboretum. Construction wasn’t completed until 2020. Better late than never, and it does have an impressive elevated wooden boardwalk […]

I’m Not Losing Sleep Over a Sloppily Delivered Mattress
By Barnaby
As with cars, we drive mattresses to beyond embarrassing. What’s a few stains when you can conceal them with a fresh set of sheets? When she is home, Pippa sleeps on a 35-year-old full mattress. Not only was it visually sketchy, but it had more swayback than a decrepit old nag. It was time. I […]

I Take a Commission for My Matchmaking
By Barnaby
A neighbor knew I like to cycle, so before he moved out of town, he gave me an ancient Raleigh bike that had been languishing in his basement. It was mummified by a thick layer of caked-on dust. The tires were so dry rotted, I had to bear down to get it to roll. I […]

Spending $42.69 a Month for Cell Service for a Family of Four – Including Two Teens!
By Barnaby
Did you see the NYT article (apologies if you’re at your paywall limit) about the true cost of upgrading to the hot new phone? Buying a fancy $1,000 iPhone is the equivalent of giving up $17,000 in retirement savings, they say, because an investment of $1,000 in a retirement account today should balloon to about […]

How to Influence People on Climate…and Faith
By Barnaby
Over the long President’s Day weekend, we drove to Vermont to visit Nora’s “second mother” (a nurturing presence in her life since childhood). Naturally, I took my bike: On Sunday, we went to her small Baptist church. It was a solid service and message, but I wasn’t very enthused when the pastor emphasized what power […]

We Added a Jumbotron to Our Empty Nest
By Barnaby
When Grey went off to college in the fall, Nora and I became empty nesters and we did a little house reorg. I’ll let Nora take it from here – this is verbatim from the family group text: I moved our TV downstairs so dad could watch football while working down there. He loved it. […]

I Got COVID Despite Being Careful
By Barnaby
My 85-year-old father thinks COVID precautions are excessive. Sometimes I agree, but I’m not anxious to get sick or inadvertently pass sickness to anyone else. So I accept his needling like a pin cushion, absorbing the barbs like I was made for it. Dad in the Cracker Barrel gift shop: “Why do you wear that […]

Six Micro Stories
By Barnaby
My mom drives an old PT Cruiser, just like Nora does. We don’t take ours on long trips anymore because it is too unreliable. The left blinker is on the fritz, the radio shuts off randomly, and the rear hatch opens when it feels like it, not when you tell it to. Mom and Dad […]